Don't stress about the end links. They can take it unless you grossly over tighten them - ah ah! Follow the IPD instructions and guess what? It's really easy, and they tell you how to tighten the sway bar end link top nut to the point of not squishing out the new poly bushings. Make sure the lower bolt and nut are tight (and that bushing is good) or you'll get clunks.

The rears are easy, too but as the others mention are a bit tougher than the front. I always put antiseize on the long bolt in the rear.
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