I need some help of a recommendation for a motor mount bushing:

I had trouble with a motor mount bushing not fitting, I found after I came to fit it that the diameter is smaller and sized for a 98 only,
I had two smaller products (Oil cooler seals + copper washers) that were incorrect and not the correct parts, like an angle gear drain plug washer that was only 10mm in diameter, and tiny little oil cooler seals tha fit nowhere. Then, when the motor mount happened I realize I have to search out details.
FCP looked at my VIN, and this is what I need:
http://www.fcpeuro.com/products/volvo-engine-torque-rod-mount-30680770-1
really?
There's a part number in there that reads 8649597

In Swedishautoparts that product shows 'up to vin 190260'
http://www.swedishautoparts.com/XC70/Volvo-XC70-motor-mounts.html#linkbar

My VIN is 26435**

I bought a bushing once. It was aftermarket and failed. I used the smaller diameter bushing which easily slipped in and out with 1mm clearance all round. I filled it with a fillet of bicycle wheel inner tube. It vibrates on highways. Sort of rattle your teeth so not pleasant. But, it is sufficient.

My question then is:
Is this the new style to buy a full aluminium mount? I would prefer the bushing.
Can you recommend?