Ok found a E5 torx bit at checker auto in a multi pack for 20$

I had trouble with the big black connector because the dealer or I had broke off the two lugs that slide the two black side locking plates when you open the lid.. If I would have known this I would have been able to move the side locking plates manually.. as it was one plate moved and the other levered over breaking out the bottom blue thing... I didn't find any blue plastic so I am blaming hte dealer at this tiem.. I think the connector will stay in place but I will have to lock the plates back by hand..

Let me explain this once more. The Big connector has a black cap that has a release on the bottom side (lower on the car) that you push with a finger into the connector to easily release. then the big black cap swings up and pivots at the oter end (top side) at the same time this action should pull the two locking sideplates back about 1/2-3/4". Each plate has two slots that correspond to two lugs on the module.
Mine is on its way to Vitor.